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TBI Survivor

Summer Camp – Not just for Kids!

This past summer, we dropped our son off at summer camp.  What is a typical and recurring experience for many children and their parents was a new experience for our family.  You see, unlike the thousands of children who attend various types of camps each year, our son is an adult. And this was not your run-of-the-mill summer camp.

A special kind of camp

Our son and several of his peers attended a camp designed for individuals living with the effects of a Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI).  This camp is offered every summer for one week.  While at this camp, these survivors have the opportunity to experience life as they remember living before their injury. They live as independently as their circumstances allow them and have experiences that otherwise may not be an option for them in their everyday lives.

Setting up for success

Each camper is paired with a volunteer assistant for the week. However the camp is specifically designed to allow each camper to be as independent as possible with assistance from their volunteer only when asked.  This aides the survivors in testing their limits and capabilities in a safe environment with support when necessary and often helps facilitate gaining new skills or regaining old ones.

Since a TBI often affects executive functioning, tasks like initiation and planning can be challenging.  To support these needs, the camp displays a large calendar, showing all the daily and weekly activities. As it is always visible, campers can refer to it whenever necessary to decide upon or remember their next activity.

Some campers getting ready to conquer the ropes course!

Some of the camp activities include fishing, canoeing, a climbing wall, zip lining, boating, biking, and a ropes course.  All of the activities are adapted to the needs of each camper, so they are able to participate to the best of their abilities.  Our son particularly enjoyed the ropes course. Although he said it was the most difficult activity he tried, he wanted to challenge himself.  He also has always enjoyed fishing, so to be able to participate in that at camp with all his friends was another of his favorites.

Speaking of the camp activities, each camper participates in whichever activities are of interest to them.  This allows them to make most of their own choices throughout the week, something which has been taken away from them in many cases. Although there is a structure in place, it exists without making the survivors feel as though they are coddled or treated as not capable.

Ready for a bike ride on adaptive bikes

By the end of the week, it was evident that the higher functioning survivors enjoyed helping their fellow campers when needed.  They worked together as a community, using whatever skills, gifts, and talents they brought to the team. One major benefit to this was they no longer had time to focus on themselves and their shortcomings.  It also opened their world to see others experiencing the same challenges.

Crossing the high wire

Like all summer camps, this one did come to an end.  And, like many campers, these TBI survivors long to return.  They think about the independence they gained, the community they formed, and the fun they experienced and would love for it to happen again.

And what if it could happen again? Not just for one week each summer, but forever?

Creating the Villa Licci residence will give these adults living with TBIs a lifetime feeling of being at camp. Daily they’ll be creating community with those who are living the same experiences.  They’ll have more opportunities to help and support one another.  And they’ll be there encouraging each other to be more independent and live their best lives every day.

Will you help to make this dream a reality?
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TBI Survivor

Gift Ideas for the TBI Survivor in your Life

As you are preparing for the gift-giving season, or just for reference for future ideas, we have compiled a list of gift-giving ideas for the TBI survivor in your life.

Help with transportation

Since many TBI survivors cannot drive themselves, providing a way for them to get from place to place is very much appreciated.  This can be in the form of gift cards for Uber/other ride services. Or just offer to give a ride yourself.  This also provides a survivor with the gift of your time and presence.

Assistance with an outing

Along with general transportation is helping a survivor go out in the community.  This is not only fun but provides social interaction.  Think about what your friend or family member likes to do and craft an outing around that.  For some it could be as simple as a trip to the mall to wander around and window-shop or people-watch.  Another might like a sporting event or a concert.  A picnic somewhere outside, or a trip to a favorite restaurant is another idea. Maybe an outing for a mani-pedi would be enjoyable.  When in doubt, ask the survivor in your life what they would like to do!

Meals, snacks, and treats

Especially for someone living on their own, assistance with meals can be helpful and fun.  Gift cards to meal delivery services or a subscription to a meal kit service might be appreciated by someone who would rather cook and/or eat at home. A gift card to a restaurant, especially if transportation and company are included, might be better for someone who wants to go out.  Perhaps even stocking their pantry with favorite snacks, especially ones that are harder to find, or bringing over homemade treats for them to enjoy would be other options.

A phone call letting them know they aren’t alone

TBI survivors often feel disconnected from others.  This can be exacerbated during the holidays.  Something as simple as a phone call shows they are not alone and you are thinking of them.

Including them in your holiday festivities

While parties and gatherings aren’t for everyone, and the survivor in your life may not want to participate, knowing that their presence is wanted is a gift in and of itself.  Extending that invitation to a family party or a gathering of friends and then helping the survivor to feel comfortable there can seem simple but is no small gesture.  Making sure the venue is accessible for their physical disabilities, providing transportation to and from, ensuring there are foods available the survivor likes, allowing them to leave when they get tired and helping them get home safely.  These are all little gestures that can provide a big gift!

No matter what you decide to do, if a gift is given thoughtfully and with love, it is always appreciated.  But remember, the greatest gift is of time and presence, so keep that in mind when you are thinking of gifts for the loved ones in your life!

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TBI Survivor

Post Concussion Syndrome

A concussion is sometimes thought of as a mild traumatic brain injury.  However, the effects are often serious and long-lasting.  When the symptoms continue longer than expected after an injury, this is known as “Post Concussion Syndrome.”

Any bump, blow, or jolt to the head can cause a concussion.  In addition, a hit to the body that causes the head and brain to move back and forth quickly can also cause a concussion. All of these situations can cause the brain to move inside the skull. This may result in injuries to the brain.

Symptoms of concussion include headaches, memory loss, loss of consciousness, difficulty thinking or concentration, nausea, blurry vision, sleep changes, and more.  When these symptoms last longer than a few weeks, a person may be diagnosed with Post Concussion Syndrome (PCS).

Researchers estimate that up to 30% of those who endure a concussion will also develop Post Concussion Syndrome. Those with PCS may have difficulty returning to normal activities or may have to make lifestyle changes to cope with their injuries. Treatment for PCS varies based upon the symptoms that occur.  For example, medicines may be used to treat headaches, rest may be prescribed for fatigue, and therapy may be recommended for depression and anxiety.  The most important treatments are time and patience.

Post Concussion Syndrome doesn’t usually last forever, but the long-term effects can be frustrating.  During the recovery period, it is also important to avoid further damage or re-injury, and to allow the brain time to fully heal. The brain is particularly sensitive to further damage during this recovery period.

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TBI Survivor

How to Explain a Brain Injury Disability

When someone experiences a brain injury, many areas of their life can be affected.  One question that often comes up is how to explain the injury and the resulting disabilities to those around them.

Before that can be done, it is important to understand what a traumatic brain injury is. A traumatic brain injury (TBI) is basically an injury that affects how the brain works.  It is known as an acquired brain injury because it is caused by events that occur after birth, not something one is born with.

Trauma can occur from a blow to the head, falling and hitting one’s head, a loss of oxygen to the brain due to drowning, a loss of blood to the brain as in a stroke, or any other event that causes damage to the brain tissue.

Sometimes, full healing occurs, and a person recovers completely from their TBI.  Some others suffer from what is known as post-concussion syndrome for months.  And still others suffer irreversible damage that cause long-term, chronic, and or severe disabilities.

Disabilities from a brain injury can be categorized into 3 groups.
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Physical
  • Headache
  • Nausea
  • Fatigue
  • Speech problems
  • Dizziness or loss of balance
  • Sensory issues
  • Hearing/vision issues
  • Muscle weakness
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Cognitive
  • Memory issues/loss
  • Problems concentrating
  • Trouble communicating
  • Learning difficulties
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Emotional/Behavioral
  • Mood changes/swings
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Agitation or combativeness
  • Impulsivity
  • Trouble controlling behavior
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Some of these disabilities are more visible than others, which is why being able to explain the disabilities can be key to further understanding.  It can also help those suffering from the long-term chronic effects of a TBI to receive the resources they need to live a healthy productive life.

When explaining a brain injury disability to someone, it is important to recognize who you are talking to.  To a child, the explanation may be very simple: “Grandpa had a stroke, so his brain is hurt, like when you fell and broke your arm.  It’s going to take him a while to feel better, but we still love him and he still loves us, even if his brain makes him act different.”

To others, they may want to know more details, especially if they are very close to the person and want to know how to help.

If applying for government aid or assistance – or for various programs that assist TBI survivors, you can be more detailed and specific.  More details are even better in these situations so that a person can receive the best help customized for their specific needs.  And if a person isn’t able to communicate for themselves, it is important they have someone who understands the situation to advocate on their behalf.

The most important thing to remember when explaining a brain injury disability is that the person is still the person they were before the injury.  They are still someone’s child, parent, friend, colleague, neighbor.  They are more than just the effects of their injury.

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TBI Survivor

A Family Affair – Ben’s Story

One of the distinguishing characteristics of survivors living with traumatic brain injuries is that life was different before their injury. This is different than someone who has always lived with a developmental or cognitive disorder. Often the contrast between “before” and “after” is very sharp and drastic.  The survivors themselves are frequently aware of this, and therefore need a community of understanding peers, such as Villa Licci, to support them along their recovery journey.

But the survivors themselves are not the only ones affected by traumatic brain injuries.  Parents often lament the losses their children have sustained because of their injury.  They, too, mourn the life they once envisioned as parents, as no one holds their little baby in their arms and imagines a future with a TBI.

The Littrells are one such family.  Living in Westfield, IN, they raised their son Ben to be an active member of his school and community.  Ben especially loved soccer and was also on the high school varsity football team, National Honor Society, and made the honor roll.  In addition to school activities, he interned at a local pharmacy.

Though he did not pursue pharmacy as a career, he did continue his education. Ben graduated from Purdue University, where he was president of his fraternity pledge class, worked full-time at a local restaurant, and maintained his high academic achievements.  He began a career in Raleigh, NC, as a salesman with Ecolab.

Eight months into his career, his entire life changed.

While visiting a fraternity brother in South Carolina, Ben was struck by an SUV traveling 35 mph.  His parents say he was fortunate that the nearest hospital happened to be a level 1 trauma center. He also had youth and being in good shape working in his favor.

After emergency brain surgery to place a drain to control intracranial pressure and orthopedic surgery to reattach his severed tibia, Ben’s healing began.  He spent two weeks in a coma, and another six weeks in the hospital. Then Ben was flown by Grace on Wings air ambulance to Atlanta, where he was treated at the Shepherd Center in their Disorders of Consciousness program.

Much as they had watched their son learn everything babies do from infancy, his family looked on again as Ben had to relearn everything. From beating his heart rhythmically, to breathing steadily and maintaining a constant body temperature, and more.

Four months after his accident, Ben headed back to his parent’s home in Indiana.  No longer on a respirator or feeding tube, Ben had relearned how to chew food, but not yet how to use his vocal cords or walk.

The healing continues

After 6 years of therapy, Ben continues to improve. He has relearned many things, as well as learned new things, like the value of support from other TBI survivors.  Ben attends Head or Tails support group, where he has made new friends, and shared experiences and specialized knowledge important for survivors.

Ben trained his puppy Max, and they are now a registered animal assisted therapy dog team. He visits nursing homes and hospitals weekly, sharing his story and listening to the stories of others, both patients and staff. In addition, Ben also volunteers as a speaker for the Joseph Maley Foundation, traveling to area schools to share his story with children.

In his own words, “We all have our struggles.  Focus, always put others before yourself, it is worth it!  While I enjoyed selling chemicals at my first job with Ecolab, these things are great but taught me how although selling is enjoyable for me, feeling a part of something big is more important. So, I enjoy most serving others and helping others. When you stop worrying about yourself and realize you are a part of a bigger picture… God’s picture, having faith, things seem easier and give you a better idea of your purpose.”

Along every step of the way, and throughout his life, Ben’s family has been by his side.  From cheering him on at his sporting events, to proudly watching his college graduation.  Even now, supporting him on his journey as a TBI survivor, they are involved in his “new normal” and are grateful for support groups and organizations such as Villa Licci that help provide community for survivors and their families.

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TBI Survivor

Domestic Violence and TBI

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.  According to research by the CDC, about one in four women and nearly one in ten men report some form of intimate partner violence over their lifetime.  Domestic violence is one of the main causes of TBIs in both adults and children.  From shaken baby syndrome to blows to the head, domestic violence can lead to serious long-term effects.

However, sometimes a victim might not know they have sustained a TBI. Likewise, they might not seek medical treatment because they don’t think the injury is that severe.  This puts them at risk for repeated injuries, thus compounding the effects of a TBI. Early treatment and awareness are key in helping TBI survivors overcome their injuries.

Like anyone with a TBI, domestic violence survivors may have trouble with executive and cognitive functioning.  They may have personality and behavior changes as well, though if the abuse is ongoing, the changes may be gradual and not sudden.

Sometimes, these impairments make it challenging to hold down a job or perform day-to-day tasks.  With a lack of income, someone suffering the effects of a TBI after being a victim of domestic violence may be unable to leave the abusive situation and find the resources necessary to fully heal.

Adults who have suffered from a TBI as a result of domestic violence may not have a safe and loving home environment.  As much as anyone with a TBI, they need a safe community in which to live and thrive.

Villa Licci does not discriminate against anyone in regards to the mechanism of their TBI. The residential community will provide supportive relationships to all who live here.  This will allow all survivors of traumatic brain injuries to thrive.

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TBI Survivor

Top 5 Things TBI Survivors Want You to Know

Recently a group of local TBI survivors were asked what they would like others to know about them and their experiences.  Here are their top five answers.

  1. More awareness is key

The most common answer amongst the young adults interviewed related to awareness.  What a brain injury is and isn’t.  How it changes a person’s life and what stays the same.  Causes and effects, and so on.  Brain injuries are often hidden disabilities, and what is hidden is frequently ignored.

  1. A brain injury doesn’t change everything

Closely tied with awareness of brain injuries overall is wanting people to understand that a brain injury does not equal complete loss of cognitive abilities.  While there are changes to cognitive functions because of the injury, TBI survivors would like others to know that not all is lost.

  1. The need to be accepted and understood

The third level of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs encompasses love and belonging.  All people share these needs and those with TBIs are no different. Not only do they seek acceptance, but also understanding. This comes from the awareness other people have of the nature of TBIs as well as the understanding that a brain injury doesn’t change everything.  Each survivor is unique and wants to be understood and accepted as such.

  1. We want to contribute to society

Also like everyone else, TBI survivors have a strong desire to contribute to society.  They want to find meaningful work and feel as if they are needed.  This is no different than anyone else looking to find their place in the world.  The only difference is that people with brain injuries once thought their life was going in one direction. Whereas now they have to re-figure out how they will be useful and needed again post-injury.

  1. We are the same as anyone else

The one overarching theme that ties everything together is the assertion that people living with a TBI are just like everyone else. And jumping off of that, they want to be treated like everyone else.  Every human being has physical, emotional, social, and other needs.  Everyone wants to be loved and everyone wants to love.  Everyone has goals they are seeking to achieve and desires they want to fulfill in their lifetime.  A TBI survivor is no different.  Just like everyone else, they are deserving of respect and being treated with the dignity of any other person.

While TBI survivors are all unique individuals, they do share commonalities, both within the circle of other survivors and with people who have not had a brain injury.  These are just the top five things a group of local survivors would like you to know about their lives and experiences.

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In his Own Words – Robb

My accident occurred in the fall of 2000.  I was an apprentice for a brick laying company and fell from scaffolding 10 ft. onto a concrete pad.  I acquired a traumatic brain injury along with other minor injuries.  It has been a long, difficult recovery to my new normal.  I was engaged and working toward a job that I really enjoyed.  Now I must face my new life and struggles.  Here are some of the things I struggle with.

The greatest difficulties that arise to me are time management, staying on track and keeping focused. I’m sure there are literally dozens if not hundreds of flaws that could be pointed out in me, but I was writing about the flaws that other survivors might have experienced, and I can just about guarantee every TBI survivor has experienced at least two of the three of these.

Time management is not a tough one to fix.  It is a pain, but it isn’t impossible.  All you need is an annoying alarm or a nagging loved one (alarm preferred) and you’re ready to go.  Set it to go off early to give yourself extra time, if you’re slow.  Always mind it and try to be Johnny or Jenny-on-the-spot.

Next, staying on track.  Some non-brain injured people have problems with this one.  Take for example The National Monument of Scotland. It was meant for those who died in the war against Napoleon in the century of 1900. Ground broke in 1826 to commemorate the brave Scotsmen who bled and died fighting Napoleon.  As funds started to trickle out so did the pride and patriotism of the countrymen.  They didn’t have the money at the time to finish it.  Instead of finishing it later, they just left it.  It sits unfinished to this day.  Had they stayed on track, instead of a monument known as an epic failure it would have been a monument of pride for the Scotsmen from the beginning.

Keeping your focus can be difficult when you have a TBI. Sometimes my TBI makes it seem like I have a hundred different things running through my brain.  I’m using all my might just to hold onto that singular thought.  As a cruel joke, someone has switched that thought and put a stupid water balloon in its place and now I’m left with a confused look on my face, a wet shirt, and not even the remnants of a water balloon because it was just a metaphor.

We’d like to thank Robb for taking the time to write out in his own words what it is like to be a TBI survivor and some of the long-term effects he deals with every day.

Becoming a Resident
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Becoming a Resident of Villa Licci

There are five steps to becoming a resident of Villa Licci.

  1. Initial Inquiry

Someone reaches out through our website, social media, local support groups, or various other means to inquire about becoming a resident. Or someone is referred to us from the local TBI community and requests more information.

  1. Written Application

Each potential resident fills out an extensive application sharing basic information and including all relevant medical information about their TBI and how they manage their daily tasks.  This application will be sent out after the initial inquiry.

  1. Application Review

The resident assessment committee reviews all applications to determine if Villa Licci is the appropriate residence for the applicant. This part of the process includes interviewing the applicant, their current caregivers and case managers, and potentially their employers and medical providers.

  1. Probationary Period

All approved applicants must complete a mandatory probationary period of at least ninety (90) days during which adherence to community standards will be evaluated. Throughout this time, they will be able to participate in all community activities and events, essentially living with all the benefits of a full resident.

  1. Permanent Residency

Once a resident has passed the probationary period, he/she will still be expected to adhere to community standards.  At this point, a resident could be dismissed only for significant reasons, including violent behavior, harassment of other residents, use/abuse of illegal substances, or engaging in criminal activity. Residents who are at risk of being dismissed will be notified of the behavior or activity that is placing them at risk and a course of action will be created to fix the problem. However, safety of all residents is a priority, so dismissal may be necessary to maintain the well-being of the overall community.

 

Once the first residential building is complete and we are ready to accept applications, we will notify our newsletter subscribers and anyone who has requested more information.

 

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TBI Survivor

Top 6 Reasons to Join a TBI Support Group

While there are many reasons a survivor of a traumatic brain injury would choose to join a support group, here are our top six:

  1. Learn strategies from others on how to live with TBI

Beyond the medical and rehabilitation worlds – which also offer support in how to adjust to life after a TBI – a TBI support group can offer even more practical strategies for survivors with brain injuries.  Support groups offer a chance for survivors to help each other and often times it is better to learn from someone who is going through similar struggles.  Support groups offer inside perspectives and peer-to-peer strategies and coping skills on how to live after suffering a TBI.

  1. Gain inspiration from others who have been on your journey and have had some success

Support groups are comprised of people at all stages in the TBI recovery journey. Therefore, besides walking alongside others at the same stage, a TBI survivor can see others who are further along the road and gain inspiration and encouragement.  Seeing someone else who has overcome similar challenges can be the catalyst and motivation needed for a survivor to maintain a positive outlook on their own life.

  1. Know that there is someone there for you to talk to

Attending a group regularly shows TBI survivors that there are others there who will listen when they struggle and offer support when needed. Support groups create an environment where sharing is encouraged and welcome. Knowing there are others out there who will listen when a compassionate ear is needed can alleviate some anxiety over the entire situation, which leads directly into the next reason.

  1. Minimize anxiety

A traumatic brain injury can cause many anxieties. It is a huge change that affects all aspects of life: physical, social, emotional, and more.  It can cause great stress and a huge sense of loneliness, which only exacerbates any anxieties.  Attending a support group shows survivors they are not alone and what they are going through is not unusual.  The supportive environment of these groups is intentionally created to ease anxieties and help TBI survivors feel comfortable about themselves and their new situations.

  1. Make new friends who understand you

One of the major struggles after a TBI is navigating both old and new relationships.  The dynamics of many existing relationships change after a TBI and forming new relationships can be a challenge.  Within a support group there are people who already recognize the unique situations and perspectives of life after a TBI.  Whereas old friendships may drop off, these new friendships that develop are with others who understand on a deeper level what it means to survive a traumatic brain injury.  These new friendships – outside of extended family or medical professionals – are vitally important to creating the “new normal” after a TBI.

  1. Feel less alone

A common thread runs through all the above reasons and culminates in this most important reason. Joining a support group helps survivors feel they are less alone.  According to research from professors at Brigham Young University, loneliness can have more deadly outcomes than alcohol abuse, excessive smoking, or obesity.  Anything a TBI survivor can do to feel less alone will increase their long-term survival and overall quality of life.

 

While there are numerous reasons for joining a traumatic brain injury support group that could be added to this list, these are our top six.  What other reasons would you add?  Click the link below to send us a comment!

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